SO Heath has given me the opportunity to stay at home and I can't decide what to do. This is a huge decision for me to make. I have worked my whole life, and can't imagine not getting up every morning and going into work. Soooo staying at home and being a mommy sounds like a great idea, but do I want to give up my adult since of responsibility at a job to stay at home??? Hmmmm
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Some women will think your hesitation is beyond weird. I hear you 100% and now that I've experienced both ways of living (sort of ... I guess working at home doesn't = stay at home mom but close enough), my input will probably only make your decision harder! My kids are totally different kids since I've been home with them and the change is for the better. They're happier and I'm not the only one who notices the change. I on the other hand find it odd to have to think of a good reason to shower and put on a bra. What's the point? I miss "me" time, I miss having a reason to get dressed and feel good about myself everyday. I miss mingling with adults and meeting friends for lunch. All I can do is remind myself that I didn't have kids so someone else could raise them. As long as I'm able to be here with them and for them I'll continue to do so ... they'll be better off for it one day and I'll get my "me" time back soon enough. You'll make the best decision for you ... no matter which you choose!
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